"There are an infinite number of ways this gets lived out, but you're not going to avoid a crucifixion. The fact is you're GOING to suffer a crucifixion and getting married doesn't solve this problem and not getting married doesn't solve this problem. Self sacrifice is painful. The giving which is a passion is a real Passion, and a painful one. "
And on a lighter note, the esteemed professor again:
"We're in the 'Intralapsarian Period', which is to say: things are messed up." ~Dr. Schindler